I am committed to the treatment of trauma, in all its forms. Ranging from one-off or multiple life threatening events to long lasting, repetitive stress. This could include family violence, childhood sexual abuse, bullying, growing up with parental mental illness/substance abuse and childhood neglect and rejection.
Traumatic experiences often involve a threat to physical safety. With emotional and psychological ‘wounds’, you can’t necessarily see the bruises, but these things can be just as damaging. In fact, they are mediated by the same stress hormones/nervous system activation as physical threat. So any situation that leaves us feeling overwhelmed, powerless or isolated can propel us into ‘fight-flight-freeze’ mode.
This can result in our brains and bodies processing and storing these experiences/memories differently to non-threatening ones. It’s like our nervous system adopts a ‘better safe than sorry’ approach. It wants us to remember these threatening experiences in ‘high definition’, so that anything vaguely reminiscent triggers our internal alarm to keep us on guard.
Moving into ‘fight-flight-freeze’ is a hugely important survival response (and needed if the threat is still present). But chronic activation becomes less helpful when the threat is in the past. The mind and body can become ‘stuck’ – unable to move on from what happened.
Often early childhood traumas will remain below our conscious awareness while still shaping how we respond in our current lives. When we find ourselves ‘overreacting’ with strong emotions in the present, this can be the result of past threats triggering us.
Understanding these ‘stuck’ patterns of ‘fight-flight-freeze’ reactivity shifts the question from ‘what is wrong with me?’ to ‘what happened to me?’. It may help to explain many mental and physical health issues including anger, anxiety, depression, numbness, shame, low self worth and hopelessness, self blame, unexplained physical pain, dissociation, panic attacks, sexual dysfunction, avoidance, insomnia, flashbacks, nightmares, relationship issues and fear of the future. In turn, this can lead us to seek unhealthy coping patterns to manage the distress, like drug and alcohol dependency, disordered eating, social withdrawal, self-harm and suicidal thinking.
Thankfully trauma is treatable (whether more recent or from our deep past). Due to significant advances in trauma therapy, even severe trauma is now treatable. I am committed to continuing professional training and supervision to keep abreast of the latest theories and innovative techniques to make my work with clients as effective as possible.